Sexual satisfaction in marriages and relationships is an important aspect of life that people forget to discuss about and give possible solution to sexual problems. For a woman in a marriage or relationship, it is a thing of concern when your man cannot give you 15 or 20 minutes of intense pleasure in the bed room. It will make you question if really he is a man. Here are three reasons why he may be an indomie man in bed :
1) He is stressed
Yeah, stress is a causative. You are asking how now? Stress at work can make your man weak when he gets home, all he wants to do is eat, have his bath and sleep. Stress can come from work related issues, relationship disagreements, family issues etc. When we are stressed, the body releases certain hormones and sends signal to the brain communicating that the body is weak. When your man is finally in bed and you want him to get down in action and he can’t get a firm erection, it is because he’s tired. He didn’t go sleeping with another woman as it will run through your mind lol. When you understand you will know how to work it out with your man.
2) He is anxious of his performance
Once one is anxious a lot of things go on. It gets difficult for your man to last in bed if silently he is thinking to himself if he is really satisfying you. This performance anxiety is triggered by negative self talks or worries about ejaculating quickly in order to please your partner.
3) He is Depressed
If your man is going through depression, he may not be able to have an erection, even he eventually have he will not last up to 5 minutes. Reasons are because he’s emotionally drained and is struggling with his brain to add a spark or an imagination before he gets erection. If your man is depressed, please do not expect a mind blowing love making. Help your man though the healing process of overcoming depression may take a little time. Once he is stable emotionally he will give you all of him he never gave you.
Sex is an emotional engagement that we invest into without knowing we are investing our emotions. What are your thoughts on this. Please the above is not inclusive of the biological causes of not being able to satisfy your partner.